Let them treat you like this.

Let them be passive-aggressive, so that when you finally respond the same way, they can say that’s just who you are.

Let them tell you, “you are not special.” So when you begin to feel insecure, you remember where that insecurity came from.

Let them say they don’t even know if they love you. And let yourself remember how foolish it was to stay with someone who could doubt something like that.

Let them rewrite the story if they want. You will still remember how it actually happened.
Don´t let them destroy your self-esteem...